I’m a girl, an American-Indian girl, and therefore am not Swedish.But I have a few Swedish girlfriends and they all have opinions of their fellow male counterparts. Swedish guys have done a good job of losing their balls over the years, part thanks to feminism, part thanks to super tight jeans that served as self castrating devices.
Assuming you really do not want to go out with the person again, the best option is #3.
No one can be upset with you for politely telling the truth. When I was on the market, I probably should have saved this e-mail to copy and paste since I used it so often: It was really nice meeting you, and thanks again for the drink.
Unfortunately, I just didn’t think we clicked the way I’d want us to, but I think you’re really great and hope to run into you again soon. It’s truthful, gets the point across, and there won’t be any miscommunication.
If you liked this girl you better rethink your exuse ,times ticking .
You have recognized a limitation within yourself and have communicated it, and I think it is important to communicate expectations to people.